Want to discuss? Please read our Commenting Policy first. Dating after ending a long-term relationship can be a scary thing. Just the thought of jumping back into the dating pool after being out of the game for so long can stir up emotions and induce anxiety. It can also trigger uncertainty and doubt, leaving you with questions about yourself, your future and your love life. With the rules of the dating game having changed since you last played, where and how do you even begin?
How to start dating again after ending a long-term relationship
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The key to enjoying a successful, enduring relationship is regular maintenance. Like your garden or your car, you have to nurture the relationship and never take it for granted. All committed and intimate relationships have their difficulties. Relationships are organic. They require two people to be involved and committed.
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Take it from me. It will look empty and bleak. The idea of beginning again, of building up years worth of memories, inside jokes, trust, and plans for the future, can feel like yet another wave threatening to crush you. Of course the ultimate goal is to grow old with the man of your dreams, but for now, just try aiming for a date with a guy who makes you laugh.
You may have started to think about the future and what you want from your relationships. It can be difficult to accept that something that was once a really big part of your life is now becoming a memory. Likewise, unresolved issues can make it difficult to accept that the relationship has ended at all. Clients often tell our counsellors that they feel stuck going over and over what happened in their last relationship and that makes it feel impossible to move on.