As archaic as it might sound, even with all the media hype, touting celebratory strides forward for LGBTQ rights, there's still a dirty little societal secret getting brushed under the rug Now, before you glass house dwellers start throwing your vicious verbal and judgmental assaults, I invite you to swear on a stack of Bible's that you've stood in a gay man's shoes, pummeled emotionally and intellectually by family, church, and society's pressure to be the heterosexual marrying kind. Yes, stand in his shoes and make sure they fit perfectly like Cinderella's glass slipper, before you open your condescending, wicked stepsister, sneering mouth. If you haven't lived and breathed sexual orientation confusion, felt gay shame, or laid awake at night wishing that you really could pray the gay away, then honestly, you've nothing to contribute to this discussion and everything to learn from reading further as to why some gay men take the road of heterosexual matrimony instead of embracing the truth of who they are -- gay men! Quite honestly, all the inside scoop that I'm about to dispense into your grey matter, if you choose to open your minds to a reality check, can be found in my recently released book -- Frankly My Dear I'm Gay: A Late Bloomers Guide To Coming Out. Yet again, for those of you who believe you know better than those of us who've lived the journey, just taking my word for it would fan the flames of my world against yours.
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My duties were simple: answer the phone. Take in the mail. Sit at the front desk and, well… keep the seat warm and try not to fall asleep. I was bored out of my mind. No matter how many times I asked, no one would assign me extra duties.
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While the rest of my friends were dating when I was younger, I was single, something that made me despair even though in those day dating just meant, like, messaging each other on AIM and maybe going on a group date or two. I vividly remember being at a sleepover and bemoaning my solo state when one of the girls present said, "Let's face it, Becca, you just aren't girlfriend material. Little Becca was shocked and floored, but also baffled, because understanding how to be a good girlfriend couldn't be that hard, right?
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