One of the best foundations for a healthy and happy relationship and sex life is having a strong bond. Because if you think about it, being with someone who is willing to watch a Twilight marathon with you on a rainy Saturday is just as crucial as being with someone who you want to have sex with during all the boring parts. And the experts agree. But what if the situation is reversed? Can dating a guy or girl you're already buds with be a good idea? Well, that depends on the friend.
Should You Date Your Friend’s Ex-Girlfriend?
7 Signs You Should Date Your Friend
So I knew what she looked like, but that was about it. Until I browsed her profile, of course. I did. It resulted in an on-again, off-again pseudo relationship that lasted a couple of years.
So your friend just started dating your ex. Here's how to deal
Several years ago, I started dating my best friend. At the time, it made perfect sense. We were inseparable, we had so much in common, we were extremely close, and when we realized we had feelings for each other that surpassed being just friends, it seemed almost silly not to date each other. Especially since we were both single and had been single for a while — a factor that we didn't take into consideration as something that was weighing heavily on our decision.
Jorge's relationship advice is based on experience and observation. He's seen many people—including himself—get seduced and hurt by love. There's no way to know for sure if your friend likes you without asking, but there are signs. Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash.